we’ve all been through it: the break-up. aside from (usually) being an emotionally devastating time, it also requires some max force effort that i like to call post relationship maintenance. this includes un-friending on fb, un-tagging pictures, un-following on twitter <—oh social media! and of course, the harder part: getting rid of the toothbrush, the comfy sweatshirts, and having a wicked fast finger for anytime any of the numerous songs, artists, or flat out GENRES that remind you of your now X-person come on the radio. now imagine if you LIVE together and have accumulated months or even YEARS or DECADES of mutual crap. that is the situation katy perry is in now! as we all know, she’s getting divorced and according to Us Weekly, katy is ready to move on and wants his stuff out of their house in hollywood ASAP. apparently she has wanted the relationship to be over for a while and just wants to move on. and, well, when dude’s stuff is all over her house it’s hard to NOT be reminded of him and the situation you’re in. he’s reporteldy back in england…and clearly not as interested in grabbing his stuff and moving on. so my question to you is this: do you throw out his stuff, give him time to go by and get it, send it to him, or try to pretend it isn’t there?

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*SAY IT AINT SO!!!! rumor has it rihanna is trying to break chris brown & his gf.  According to Life & Style, after initiating a conversation with Chris on Twitter, Rihanna has met up with her ex. A source said, “She stopped by his studio recently – twice. She’s also calling and texting him a lot. She won’t let go.” HERE ARE THE TWEETS THAT STARTED IT ALL:

ok it wasn’t DIRECTLY at each other. but come on! we all KNOW who those tweets were meant for. luckily there IS a restraing order still in place til 2014. sometimes the law is smarter than us! especially when you’re as young as THEY ARE. rihanna is only 23 and chris brown is 22. since they’ve been in the limelight for so long, they SEEM older. but in reality they’re just kids…who were in love and made mistakes. i feel i would be disappointed if they got back together only to have a rocky, violent relationship. but who is to say these two haven’t matured? sometimes love is worth second chance. WHOA am i saying this right now? after years and years of being against chris….i’m starting to think maybe i’m against what he DID only. who is to say he hasn’t changed?  either way, i wish them the BEST. and if the BEST for them is with each other then go for it! but if you’re going to go back in to the same ‘ol ish….don’t even bother!

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KATY PERRY & RUSSELL BRAND are getting DIVORCED.

i’m not sure how, or why…but this one really surprised me. you would think JUST by looking at this (or any) pic of theirs that this was bound to happen. but i liked them together…in a weird….twisted way, they made sense to me. needless to say it’s sad another one bites the dust. now the good stuff! so they were married for ONE YEAR…and reside in california, a 50-50 state. she made 45 MILLION DOLLARS within that one year, and he made 8 MILLION. are you telling me that he deserves 22.5 MILLION DOLLARS??? from the money SHE WORKED FOR??? i can hear you now: he helped her, supported her etc….ummm NO! that is HER money and if he were to go AFTER it…not only would it be SHADY but it would be unmanly. again, i can hear you saying well if it were the other way around she would get half. here’s my answer: i don’t believe in alimony. i don’t believe in SCREWING someone for their money because it didn’t work out. especially if you were only together for a YEAR! overall thoughts: i’m sad for both of them….divorce can’t possibly be an easy thing to deal with. when i heard that katy pulled out of the People’s Choice Awards and some people were calling her a DIVA for it—i thought OBVIOUSLY she did this not because she’s “above” the show…but because she’s not ready to be HOUNDED by people about her upcoming divorce. she’s only human!

moving on to the biggest news of 2012 so far: WELCOME BABY BLUE IVY CARTER!!!!!!

congratulations to both JAY Z & BEYONCE for their helathy 7 pound baby girl! come on—we all knew it! with this delivery was going to come drama! and it’s no surprise that there was an UPROAR about “special treatment” and “security overload” at the NYC hospital Bey delivered at. surely there were special accomodations. but why hate? if you were ballin as hard i’m sure you would do the same! paparrazzi are going to be INSANE around them….trying to get that first shot of Blue. so as a millionaire father/mother aren’t you going to do everything in your power to protect her? parents will do anything for their kids. now add in millions of dollars to that equation too! Mayor Michael Bloomberg was quick to defend any special accomodations for them in their private hospital stay too! “If the hostpital got paid a lot of money and it let them provide services to other people who don’t have insurance or can’t afford it, I’m not so sure it’s a bad thing, Full-paying patients are very valuable to hospitals in this day and age.” again i say if we had the money and the same RISK we would do the same. of course it’s just the beginning of the BABY BLUE drama:

seriously?!?!?! SERIOUSLY!?!?!?! some “theorists” A.K.A. extremists have said that if you flip BLUE IVY CARTER and then TRANSLATE it into latin that it means satan’s child. first of all, doubt it. second of all….can we just LET THEM BE?!! Baby Blue is obviously a gift from God to these two…so why try to ruin that? that church should be ASHAMED!!!! here are SOME thoughts from my FB page:

*now back to a positive note: JAY Z released a beautiful song in honor of Blue Ivy Carter…and she’s even FEATURED on it! her first cry if you haven’t heard it already, take a listen:

 now rumors that rihanna is pregnant arise too (now hers i don’t think have to do with her body) but of course: mariah, beyonce, jessica simpson, angelina ALL hollywood women have been called PREGNANT when they weren’t bc they didn’t have a perfectly flat belly. i mean seriously, i look 3 months pregnant ALWAYS LOL. my friend reva is pregnant right now and she posted the most ADORABLE pic of herself and her belly…and then i thought MAN that looks like me after i have a chipotle burrito. my point is, we don’t ALL have perfectly flat belly! so lets NOT assume someone is pregnant!!!! they’ll tell us when they want to IF THEY ARE, if they aren’t…..let em be!

*my nini’s happy to be back with her momma!*

it’s the one week anniversary of the worst day of my LIFE!!!! and really, it felt like it took all week to brush this whole thing off. last week, i took my two kiddos (Nina & Teddy—my 3 year old and 3 month old yorkies respectively) out before bed. it was midnight…and i was hesitant to go out at that time since it was 25 degrees and all. but anyone who’s ever had a puppy knows you’re on their time not YOURS until they are trained. usually if i’m taking my dogs out at night, i leave them off leash so they can run around…the puppy can’t go far and nina is QUICK to respond to any command. within a matter of 5 minutes i was done picking up after the baby and was calling nina (she had walked over to the next patch of grass) to come back inside when i realized she was GONE. i FREAKED OUT. i was crying hysterically….we have a RIVER that runs right in the back of the apartment complex–which is where we were….and i started thinking the WORST CASE SCENARIOS. in my hyteria: i fell with the puppy, broke my nail (that was already short!!) and cracked the screen of my iphone. i stayed out until 3:30 in the morning hysterically looking for nina. shout out to miguel, and the two neighbors that helped me look that night! i went back into the apartment and tried to warm up….while at the same time feeling guilty for being inside when nina could be freezing in 25 degree weather. at 6:45 i went out looking again and by 8 am when the office at my apartment complex opened, i went in to let them know what had happened. thank GOD she’s a genius…and thought to look on the surveillance cameras. sure enough, we see my FRIENDLY ASS DOG nina being called over by some people who pick her up and take her inside! they didnt look around for me, or call the number on nina’s tag. after the prop manager studied the video a few times she figured out who it was and called them…they didn’t answer. at 9:30 she knocked on their door: no answer. so she slipped them a note saying she had seen them on the video. 30 minutes later, they dropped nina off at the office….with her HAIR ALL CUT OFF. nina had LONG, beautiful yorkie hair and they cut her whole body, and messed up her hair from her face too. really it was the best outcome it could have been….but they just went about it all wrong. why would you not immediately call the number on the tag, why would you alter someone else’s dog if you were going to return it!?!?! it just makes no sense. Thank you so much though…to the office people at royal mills….and so many of the residents who helped me look for nina! i’m sure ANYONE of those people who have pets (over 50% of the complex) would have gone about it a different way but i’m just happy she’s home. after having to shave her down at the groomers, and having a literally aching body for 3 days….i am glad to say it’s behind me. Thank you to MIGUEL, BETH, ROYAL MILLS STAFF, my GOOD neighbors and everyone at Hot 106 who used radio to get the message out that i was missing my baby girl. it really was the worst feeling in the WORLD.

dee

*like gloria says: it’s a doggy dog world.*

women have a weakness for all things fashion! but my guilty PLEASURE, my KRYPTONITE….my PASSION…..(along with many other women)

say it with me:  SHOES!!!

right now we have a chance for you to win a coveted prize…i would personally KILL for it <– haha! a $500 shopping spree to OFF BROADWAY SHOES opening up in warwick this week! all you have to do is log online to http://hot1063.upickem.net/engine/Details.aspx?p=A&c=41932&s=11749456&i=1#SD and upload a pic of your #HOTSHOES and don’t forget to tweet the pic to me too!! @deegarcia621 with the hashtag #HOTSHOES !!!

get ON IT GIRLS!!! and don’t forget to let me know when you decide to hit up the store so we can do some damage!!

i have LOTS of entertainment gossip bc of the DIRT REPORT!! woop woop for us

J.LO is moving on UP!!!

Jennifer Lopez is back on the market fellas. YES, we all know
she’s getting divorced. But the GORGEOUS LATINA has gone on her FIRST public
(post break-up) DATE!!! with none other than the also hot BRADLEY COOPER!!  CAN
YOU SAY UPGRADE?????

BEYONCE: we’ve heard of cravings…but FOR REAL GIRL!?!?!

Beyonce is reportedly having some REALLY CRAZY pregnancy
cravings. According to The UK Sun, during her vacay around Italy and
Croatia with Jay-Z and some family and friends, Bey reportedly craved things
like ice cream with hot chilli sauce. A source said that Bey has been eating
oreo cookies, gherkins — which is a pickle and she also “loves dipping bananas
in ketchup.” The source also revealed what Bey is eating for breakfast. The
source said, “She’s been having croissants with melted Dime bars inside.” She’s
also been drinking ginger ale. The superstar is reportedly due in February.

SAY IT AINT SO!!! don’t do it RIRI!

According to The National Enquirer <— Though who knows
how reliable THEY ARE lol… cousins Nicola Alleyne and Amanda Thompson are
all for Ri Ri getting back with her ex. Nicola has said that she thinks the
singer still loves Chris. She said, “Chris made a mistake, but I forgive him. I
think he got hit too. Knowing Rihanna like I do, it was a fight. But I would
love them to be back together. I really think Chris still loves her.” Nicola
added that she met Chris when Rihanna brought him to Barbados to meet everyone.
She said, “She introduced Chris to everybody. He was really, really nice. Chris’
mother, sister, nephew and cousin also came. My mother made dinner, and Chris
sat on the floor and ate her Guyanese food – baked salt fish and rice.” Amanda
added, “I loved Chris Brown. I met him after Rihanna had just won her first
Grammy. She had a party in the Boatyard Bar in Bridgetown, and I danced with
him. I don’t know what happened, but I would love for them to get back together.
Everybody makes mistakes.”

WIZ KHALIFA DID WHAT!!!?!?!?!

he did it. he wifed a ***.

Pictures of Amber in a fitted, white gown and Wiz in a black tux
at a ceremony were posted onto Supergorge.com. HOPE it’s true….it gives
us something to talk about. According to Bossip.com, reports said that
inside sources revealed that Wiz and Amber flew to Las Vegas and invited some of
their closest friends and family to attend a very small and private “ceremony.”
According to Mediatakeout.com, the ceremony went down on Thursday
(September 8th) and Amber is indeed pregnant by Wiz–way to lock it in GIRL!!!!
The couple started dating earlier this year.

OK…. maybe i can’t complain because i get let off of 98.7% of traffic violations…..but STILL!

an opportunity to be a hater on chris brown!?!?!

 ummm…CANNOT pass that up!

so another break for the crazy!!!! apparently he thought since he’s chris brown, he could take up 2 handicapped spots at his condo- he got 117 parking citations!

it came up to around $15,000 …..and he just got 95 of them DISMISSED!!!!!!!

must. be. nice.

RED? yes. BROWN? yes. BLONDE—ah hell no. girl changed her hair AGAIN and seems to be channelling CHRIS BROWN!!!